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sorry
/ˈsɒri/·adjective·before 950 CE (Old English sārig)·Established
Origin
OldEnglish sārig meant 'full of pain' — from sār, 'a sore' — making 'sorry' literally 'sore-ish', with no etymological relation to 'sorrow' despite the misleading resemblance.
Definition
Feeling distress, regret, or penitence; used to express apology or sympathy. Also used colloquially to mean 'pitiful' or 'in poor condition' (a sorry state).
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Old Englishbefore 1000well-attested
From OldEnglish sārig (pained, grieved, distressed, full of sorrow), derived from sār (pain, wound, sore), from Proto-Germanic *sairaz (suffering, sick, sore), from PIE *seh₂i- (suffering, sickness). Theword is literally 'sore-ish' or 'full of soreness' — in a state of pain. Crucially, sorry is NOT derived from sorrow despite the obvious phonetic resemblance; sorrow descends from Old English sorh/sorg, from Proto-Germanic
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'Sorry' and 'sorrow' look like they must be related, but they are false friends etymologically. 'Sorry' comes from 'sore' (physical pain); 'sorrow' comes from Proto-Germanic *sorgō (anxiety, care), cognate with German 'Sorge' (worry). Two words that collided in meaning but never shared
German sēr (painful), and Dutch zeer (sore, painful). The evolution from physical pain to emotional regret and social apology occurred gradually through Middle English. Key roots: *sh₂ei- (PIE: "suffering, sickness"), *sairagaz (Proto-Germanic: "pained, sore"), sār (Old English: "pain, sore, wound").
sore(English (direct sibling, same root))sár(Old Norse (sore, wounded))seer(Old High German (painful))zeer(Dutch (sore, painful))sārig(Old English (source form))